I’m not sure if it’s just that husbands protect their wives from the brutal truth of what’s going on in the world, or maybe some people just truly aren’t affected by the current economic downturn (through which some of us — ahem — are having a hard time sleeping), or maybe they simply don’t care, but still and all, it boggles the mind…
The other day I was having a discussion with some women I happened to meet at a function, so I didn’t know them very well, but from the conversation it was clear that they were all “a touch above” me — as the antiquated expression goes. There was plenty of chatter about three kids at three different private schools and how could one possibly not have a nanny who drives??? I know, I sound bitter, but when one of them said they took a girls’ weekend to Bermuda and they flew in a tennis instructor from England I feel I’m allowed to be.
The conversation faded — after all, I couldn’t add anything to it except maybe that I, myself, might be making Hamburger Helper for dinner that night (I actually hate Hamburger Helper and would never cook it– but it brings home a point). So, as the lull in the conversation increased and everyone looked at each other awkwardly, I said, “I have a friend visiting from out of town. She’s never had a good meal here — can anyone suggest a reasonably priced restaurant? You know, something hip and trendy, fun, not too expensive?”
That helped. It got their “spending juices” flowing, and one said enthusiastically, “How about Susur?”
“Um,” I said a little hesitantly, “Susur closed awhile ago. And besides, even if it were open, it’s like $95 a plate plus wine. I’m looking for something a little more down scale.”
“Oh, I know, North 44,” said someone else.
Now, if you know Toronto, you know that North 44 ain’t exactly cheap. I don’t believe you walk out of there for less than $200 for two. So again I said, “No, that’s not it: something less expensive.” Honestly, you’d think I was asking about diamonds or something — I mean, there isn’t such a thing as an inexpensive diamond, but restaurants, let’s face it — restaurants run the gammit from a great little noodle shop for a $5 lunch to, well, Susur for $250 for two. — Yes, I know it’s closed.
So, anyway, the restuarant suggestions keep coming at me: Centro, Scaramouche, Jump. All great restaurants, all completely out of our league — I know this for certain as I’ve been to a few of them — when somebody else is picking up the tab.
I stopped trying to correct them, because apparently Centro’s is a bargain for these ladies, smiled and nodded and gave up. Clearly these women are oblivious to any economic downturn, so I wish them luck and I really don’t think they’re going to have a problem making a reservation at North 44 or Scaramouche.